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Characteristics of a Successful Dominant 

I have spent a lot of time discussing with others in the lifestyle what makes a good dominant. What marks a true dominant from a player or wannabe. I have read every bit of material I could get my hands on. Through these discussions and research, I have been able to compile the following list […]

Open Relationship Terminology

Opening things up is more complicated than hot sex with lots of partners. It’s also going to involve some intense conversations, and having the right words can be a big help. Open Relationship is becoming more mainstream nowadays. People are understanding that monogamy only works for some people, and there is nothing wrong if you […]

Vetting, the Lost Art

Vetting a new partner is something we have lost as a society, not just in the BDSM community.  We see all the time a person ends one relationship to next week, or less, be chest deep in a new relationship and deeply in love. So, what is vetting and why is it so important? According […]

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